A Jew Grows in Brooklyn: The Curious Reflections of a First-Generation American

A Jew Grows in Brooklyn\ The Curious Reflections of a First-Generation American \ \ By Jake Ehrenreich \ HCI\ Copyright © 2010 Jake Ehrenreich\ All right reserved.\ ISBN: 9780757314667 \ \ \ Setting the Stage\ 'The greatest thing in this world is not so much\ where we are, but in what direction we are moving.'\ —Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr.\ I anxiously waited in the back of the social hall at the community center in Washington Township, New Jersey, and watched the eight (yes, eight) audience members settle in as I prepared to go onstage for the 2005 premiere of my comedy/drama/musical 'Growing Up in America.' My God, What was I doing?!\ I was already in my forties, I had a beautiful wife and son, and I was making a great living as a musician and performer. Who needs this? I asked myself, but I already knew the answer. Somehow, I'd always known that I would one day have to tell this story. I needed this.\ I bounded onto the stage and began singing, playing instruments, and telling the scripted stories of my life as the first-born son of Holocaust survivors, of my Brooklyn childhood and Catskills summers, of caring for my mother and two sisters as they each succumbed to early Alzheimer's disease, of my intensely hardworking father, of finding love, and of how, after a long journey, the story came full circle with the birth of my son, Joseph Dov-Behr Ehrenreich.\ I got some laughs and tears—and as the week wore on, more than a few audience members. After the first few days, word spread like wildfire. By the end of the week, we were sold out. Eventually, 'Growing Up in America' became 'A Jew Grows in Brooklyn' and went on to break box-office records at the historic Lambs Theater in the heart of Broadway. We played in New York City for a year and half and have been filling houses across the country ever since.\ The look in the eyes of audience members as I see them channel their own childhoods, the stories they share with me after the show, and the special bond we form together is something I may never be able to re-create. But I hope to create something similar with this book. No matter where my life and career take me in the future, I will always return to this honest story of hope and renewal.\ In part, this book is that story—my family's story, the same one I tell in 'A Jew Grows in Brooklyn'—only without the music and the footlights. And yet it expands it, by chronicling the journey—dysfunction, humor, sadness, and all—that led me to where I am now.\ But it's not only about my family and my experiences—it's about your story, too, because our shared journey of life holds the same basic challenges: Challenges of fear and perseverance, of finding beauty and love, of searching for meaning, and of learning that we are so much more than just our circumstances. And if we have a few laughs and lessons along the way, so much the better.\ My family arrived in America in 1949—survivors of the Nazi Holocaust that ravaged the Jews and many others during World War II. Unlike their eight brothers and sisters, my parents survived the war by escaping to Russian work camps in Siberia, where my eldest sister Wanda was born. Shortly after the war, Joanie, my other sister, was born in a displaced persons camp in Germany. And me? Well, I was born in Brooklyn—a true-blue 'Yankee Doodle,' destined to tell the story for my family who is now gone. Or perhaps I should say 'Yonkee' Doodle, because I was endearingly called by my Yiddish nickname 'Yonkee' (Yankele) as a boy. I tried every which way to get rid of it, along with my family's history, and just fit in. All I wanted was to be a sure-fired, smack-damn, 100-percent, through-and-through, standard-issue, red-blooded American kid. Fitting in was a big deal for me. (Now, not so much.)\ The story of my name is only one of many I want to share with you. Others include stories of my dad who worked seven days a week and our extraordinary relationship and his courageous battle with Parkinson's disease . . . of overcoming drug abuse . . . of being a musician living the rock-'n'-roll lifestyle . . . of my bachelor's obsession with women (that's a good one) . . . of learning to turn adversity into opportunity . . . of realizing that I was funny (yeah, well, we'll see) . . . of the incredible joys and challenges of parenting and marriage . . . of the continuing journey of self-discovery . . . and of the beautiful reactions I have had to my story—from people in all walks of life.\ Stories of life and family history have been with us throughout recorded time. They teach, explain, and entertain. My intention is to offer you, through these stories, some glimpses of the attitudes and behaviors I've adopted that have played a part in my growth and success, both professionally and personally. I have, in great part, learned these lessons from others, and I hope, in turn, you will take away at least one lesson, or many, that will serve you and yours on your journey.\ This book is about the quintessential American experience—the immigrant experience. Yet, on a deeper level it is about our common human experience, how we approach the inescapable adversity, tragedy, and challenges that life serves up, and how we ultimately find our way to the triumph or defeat of our soul and spirit. It's about choosing to define our circumstances in an empowering way and about learning to apply our focus and energy in a manner that serves us well. It's about living fruitfully and joyously and fully. It's about renewal—of spirit and body and mind. (Wow, I'd like to read this book myself! Will it wash my car? Can it core 'a' apple?)\ I hope that traveling these roads with me, not only gets you laughing and thinking, but inspires you to take a look back at the people and events that have been pivotal in your own life. Think about them, write them down, and share them with friends and family. Perhaps recalling your stories (maybe in a writing group or a book club—wait, definitely in a book club!) and discovering what you've learned might inspire others—or maybe just yourself.\ With intention and faith, anything is possible. With love and joy and gratitude and an indomitable spirit, we can live our dreams and have a positive, lasting influence on the world and those around us.\ So, on with the show. . . .\ )2010. Jake Ehrenreich. All rights reserved. Reprinted from A Jew Grows in Brooklyn. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system or transmitted in any form or by any means, without the written permission of the publisher. 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Setting The Stage 1Yonkee: (or What's in a Name?) 5The Alka-Seltzer Bottles: (or “It Was Me. I Took the Coins”) 12Through The Window: (or You May Be the World to Someone) 18The Chinese Lots: (or Another Broken Window) 22Castro Convertibles: (or Only in the Mind of a Child) 29Teachers: (or The Lesson Joe Taught Me) 36The Desk Drums: (or How Bad Things Go Good) 42Dad: (or “Be Like Your Father”) 50Mom: (or Remembering the Comfort of Her Care) 59The Catskills: (or What Was, Was, and Is No More) 68Uncontrollable Laughter: (or Laughing at the Worst Possible Times) 79Joanie: (or A Celebration of Innocence and Love) 89Sex: (or It's My Thousandth time, Too) 97Wanda: (or Being Responsible for Who We Are) 107Drugs: (or Having a “Good” Time While You Play) 117Tante Regina: (or Someone Not to Be Trifled With) 126Rock-'N'-Roll: (or The All-American Gig) 142Bashert: (or Let Fate Decide) 151Unconditional Love: (or The Most Tender Part of the Heart) 161Family: (or Why Don't I Have a Grandmother?) 171The Birth: (or Giving New Life to the Family Name) 177The Bris: (or It's No Laughing Matter) 187Doody: (or Am I Really Including an Essay About That?!) 194Self-Help: (or I'm Okay, I'm Okay) 204“Pretty Good”: (or Looking on the Bright Side) 209Fear: (or The Worst-Case Scenario) 218My Stage Show: (or The How Takes Care of Itself) 223Back to Brooklyn: (or A Bond That Will Never Fade) 230Exit, Stage Left: (or the Journey is the Destination) 236Acknowledgments 239A Note from the Director of the Show 243An Article Jonah Ehrenreich 247About the Author 251

\ Publishers WeeklyIn this print adaptation of his successful one-man show, featured on Broadway, playwright and performer Ehrenreich tells his story of growing up in Brooklyn as the first-born son of Holocaust survivors in the years following WWII. Desperate to acquire the "all American" identity he feels denied as part of a foreign, Jewish family of war survivors, Ehrenreich plied his love of rock music into an adolescent romance with the drums; during his teens and twenties, Ehrenreich became involved in a number of musical projects, performing for vacationers in the Catskills and playing clubs around the country, eventually finding himself among famous musicians like Richie Havens and glam-rock band KISS. Along the way, the married-with-children Ehrenreich divulges entertaining details of his wilder years, including a string of romantic conquests and a struggle with drug abuse. Ehrenreich also devotes a chapter to each member of his family, recounting fond memories as well as tragic details of the early-onset Alzheimers that claimed his mother and two sisters. His style and timing perfected over years of performance, Ehrenreich proves inspirational and entertaining throughout, showing readers how he weathered troubled times to discover an unconditional love for life. B&W photos. \ Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.\ \