Book of Virtues

Chapter 1\ Self-Discipline\ In self-discipline one makes a "disciple" of oneself. One is one's own teacher, trainer, coach, and "disciplinarian." It is an odd sort of relationship, paradoxical in its own way, and many of us don't handle it very well. There is much unhappiness and personal distress in the world because of failures to control tempers, appetites, passions, and impulses. "Oh, if only I had stopped myself" is an all too familiar refrain.\ The father of modern philosophy, René Descartes, once remarked of "good sense" that "everybody thinks he is so well supplied with it, that even the most difficult to please in all other matters never desire more of it than they already possess." With self-discipline it is just the opposite. Rare indeed is the person who doesn't desire more self-discipline and, with it, the control that it gives one over the course of one's life and development. That desire is itself, as Descartes might say, a further mark of good sense. We do want to take charge of ourselves. But what does that mean?\ The question has been at or near the center of Western philosophy since its very beginnings. Plato divided the soul into three parts or operations — reason, passion, and appetite — and said that right behavior results from harmony or control of these elements. Saint Augustine sought to understand the soul by ranking its various forms of love in his famous ordo amoris: love of God, neighbor, self, and material goods. Sigmund Freud divided the psyche into the id, ego, and superego. And we find William Shakespeare examining the conflicts of the soul, the struggle between good and evil called the psychomachia, in immortal works such as King Lear, Macbeth, Othello, and Hamlet. Again and again, the problem is one of the soul's proper balance and order. "This was the noblest Roman of them all," Antony says of Brutus in Julius Caesar. "His life was gentle, and the elements so mixed in him that nature might stand up and say to all the world, 'This was a man!'"\ But the question of correct order of the soul is not simply the domain of sublime philosophy and drama. It lies at the heart of the task of successful everyday behavior, whether it is controlling our tempers, or our appetites, or our inclinations to sit all day in front of the television. As Aristotle pointed out, here our habits make all the difference. We learn to order our souls the same way we learn to do math problems or play baseball well — through practice.\ Practice, of course, is the medicine so many people find hard to swallow. If it were easy, we wouldn't have such modern-day phenomena as multimillon-dollar diet and exercise industries. We can enlist the aid of trainers, therapists, support groups, step programs, and other strategies, but in the end, it's practice that brings self-control.\ The case of Aristotle's contemporary Demosthenes illustrates the point. Demosthenes had great ambition to become an orator, but suffered natural limitations as a speaker. Strong desire is essential, but by itself is insufficient. According to Plutarch, "His inarticulate and stammering pronunciation he overcame and rendered more distinct by speaking with pebbles in his mouth." Give yourself an even greater challenge than the one you are trying to master and you will develop the powers necessary to overcome the original difficulty. He used a similar strategy in training his voice, which "he disciplined by declaiming and reciting speeches or verses when he was out of breath, while running or going up steep places." And to keep himself studying without interruption "two or three months together," Demosthenes shaved "one half of his head, that so for shame he might not go abroad, though he desired it ever so much." Thus did Demosthenes make a kind of negative support group out of a general public that never saw him!\ Good and Bad Children\ Robert Louis Stevenson\ Children, you are very little,\ And your bones are very brittle;\ If you would grow great and stately,\ You must try to walk sedately.\ You must still be bright and quiet,\ And content with simple diet;\ And remain, through all bewild'ring,\ Innocent and honest children.\ Happy hearts and happy faces,\ Happy play in grassy places —\ That was how, in ancient ages,\ Children grew to kings and sages.\ But the unkind and the unruly,\ And the sort who eat unduly,\ They must never hope for glory —\ Theirs is quite a different story!\ Cruel children, crying babies,\ All grow up as geese and gabies,\ Hated, as their age increases,\ By their nephews and their nieces.\ \ Please\ Alicia Aspinwall\ Webster's defines our manners as our "morals shown in conduct." Good people stick to good manners, as this story from a turn-of-the-century reader reminds us.\ There was once a little word named "Please," that lived in a small boy's mouth. Pleases live in everybody's mouth, though people often forget they are there.\ Now, all Pleases, to be kept strong and happy, should be taken out of the mouth very often, so they can get air. They are like little fish in a bowl, you know, that come popping up to the top of the water to breathe.\ The Please I am going to tell you about lived in the mouth of a boy named Dick; but only once in a long while did it have a chance to get out. For Dick, I am sorry to say, was a rude little boy; he hardly ever remembered to say "Please."\ "Give me some bread! I want some water! Give me that book!" — that is the way he would ask for things.\ His father and mother felt very bad about this. And, as for the poor Please itself, it would sit up on the roof of the boy's mouth day after day, hoping for a chance to get out. It was growing weaker and weaker every day.\ This boy Dick had a brother, John. Now, John was older than Dick — he was almost ten; and he was just as polite as Dick was rude. So his Please had plenty of fresh air, and was strong and happy.\ One day at breakfast, Dick's Please felt that he must have some fresh air, even if he had to run away. So out he ran — out of Dick's mouth — and took a long breath. Then he crept across the table and jumped into John's mouth!\ The Please-who-lived-there was very angry.\ "Get out!" he cried. "You don't belong here! This is my mouth!"\ "I know it," replied Dick's Please. "I live over there in that brother mouth. But alas! I am not happy there. I am never used. I never get a breath of fresh air! I thought you might be willing to let me stay here for a day or so — until I felt stronger."\ "Why, certainly," said the other Please, kindly. "I understand. Stay, of course; and when my master uses me, we will both go out together. He is kind, and I am sure he would not mind saying 'Please' twice. Stay, as long as you like."\ That noon, at dinner, John wanted some butter; and this is what he said:\ "Father, will you pass me the butter, please — please?"\ "Certainly," said the father. "But why be so very polite?"\ John did not answer. He was turning to his mother, and said,\ "Mother, will you give me a muffin, please — please?"\ His mother laughed.\ "You shall have the muffin, dear; but why do you say 'please' twice?"\ "I don't know," answered John. "The words seem just to jump out, somehow. Katie, please — please, some water!\ "This time, John was almost frightened.\ "Well, well," said his father, "there is no harm done. One can't be too 'pleasing' in this world."\ All this time little Dick had been calling, "Give me an egg! I want some milk. Give me a spoon!" in the rude way he had. But now he stopped and listened to his brother. He thought it would be fun to try to talk like John; so he began,\ "Mother, will you give me a muffin, m-m-m-?"\ He was trying to say "please"; but how could he? He never guessed that his own little Please was sitting in John's mouth. So he tried again, and asked for the butter.\ "Mother, will you pass me the butter, m-m-m-?"\ That was all he could say.\ So it went on all day, and everyone wondered what was the matter with those two boys. When night came, they were both so tired, and Dick was so cross, that their mother sent them to bed very early.\ But the next morning, no sooner had they sat down to breakfast than Dick's Please ran home again. He had had so much fresh air the day before that now he was feeling quite strong and happy. And the very next moment, he had another airing; for Dick said,\ "Father, will you cut my orange, please?" Why! the word slipped out as easily as could be! It sounded just as well as when John said it — John was saying only one "please" this morning. And from that time on, little Dick was just as polite as his brother.\ Rebecca,\ Who Slammed Doors for Fun and Perished Miserably.\ Hilaire Belloc\ Aristotle would have loved this poem and the one that follows it. The first illustrates excess, the second deficiency. The trick to finding correct behavior is to strike the right balance. (See the passage from Aristotle's Ethics, later in this chapter.)\ A trick that everyone abhors\ In Little Gifts is slamming Doors.\ A Wealthy Banker's Little Daughter\ Who lived in Palace Green, Bayswater\ (By name Rebecca Offendort),\ Was given to this Furious Sport.\ She would deliberately go\ And Slam the door like Billy-Ho!\ To make her Uncle Jacob start.\ She was not really bad at heart,\ But only rather rude and wild:\ She was an aggravating child....\ It happened that a Marble Bust\ of Abraham was standing just\ d\ Above the Door this little Lamb\ Had carefully prepared to Slam,\ And Down it came! It knocked her flat!\ It laid her out! She looked like that.\ Her Funeral Sermon (which was long\ And followed by a Sacred Song)\ Mentioned her Virtues, it is true,\ But dwelt upon her Vices too,\ And showed the Dreadful End of One\ Who goes and slams the Door for Fun.\ The children who were brought to hear\ The awful Tale from far and near\ Were much impressed, and inly swore\ They never more would slam the Door.\ — As often they had done before.\ \ Godfrey Gordon Gustavus Gore\ William Brighty Rands\ Godfrey Gordon Gustavus Gore —\ No doubt you have heard the name before —\ Was a boy who never would shut a door!\ The wind might whistle, the wind might roar,\ And teeth be aching and throats be sore,\ But still he never would shut the door.\ His father would beg, his mother implore,\ "Godfrey Gordon Gustavus Gore,\ We really do wish you would shut the door!"\ Their hands they wrung, their hair they tore;\ But Godfrey Gordon Gustavus Gore\ Was deaf as the buoy out at the Nore.\ When he walked forth the folks would roar,\ "Godfrey Gordon Gustavus Gore,\ Why don't you think to shut the door?"\ They rigged out a Shutter with sail and oar,\ And threatened to pack off Gustavus Gore\ On a voyage of penance to Singapore.\ But he begged for mercy, and said, "No more!\ Pray do not send me to Singapore\ On a Shutter, and then I will shut the door."\ "You will?" said his parents; "then keep on shore!\ But mind you do! For the plague is sore\ Of a fellow that never will shut the door,\ Godfrey Gordon Gustavus Gore!"\ \ The Lovable Child\ Emilie Poulsson\ We meet the well-behaved child (whom everybody loves).\ Frisky as a lambkin,\ Busy as a bee —\ That's the kind of little girl\ People like to see.\ Modest as a violet,\ As a rosebud sweet —\ That's the kind of little girl\ People like to meet.\ Bright as is a diamond,\ Pure as any pearl —\ Everyone rejoices in\ Such a little girl.\ Happy as a robin,\ Gentle as a dove —\ That's the kind of little girl\ Everyone will love.\ Fly away and seek her,\ Little song of mine,\ For I choose that very girl\ As my Valentine.\ \ John, Tom, and James\ We meet three ill-behaved children (whom nobody likes).\ John was a bad boy, and beat a poor cat;\ Tom put a stone in a blind man's hat;\ James was the boy who neglected his prayers;\ They've all grown up ugly, and nobody cares.\ \ There Was a Little Girl\ We meet the child who, like most, is sometimes well behaved and sometimes not. And we face a hard, unavoidable fact of life: if we cannot control our own behavior, eventually someone will come and control it for us in a way we probably will not like. This poem is sometimes attributed to Henry Wadsworth Long-fellow.\ There was a little girl,\ And she had a little curl\ Right in the middle of her forehead.\ When she was good\ She was very, very good,\ And when she was bad she was horrid.\ One day she went upstairs,\ When her parents, unawares,\ In the kitchen were occupied with meals,\ And she stood upon her head\ In her little trundle-bed,\ And then began hooraying with her heels.\ Her mother heard the noise,\ And she thought it was the boys\ A-playing at a combat in the attic;\ But when she climbed the stair,\ And found Jemima there,\ She took and she did spank her most emphatic.\ \ My Own Self\ Retold by Joseph Jacobs\ Sometimes fortune offers us close calls we should take as warnings. Heaving a sigh of relief is not enough; if we're smart, we'll change our behavior. Self-discipline is learned in the face of adversity, as this old English fairy tale reminds us.\ In a tiny house in the North Countrie, far away from any town or village, there lived not long ago, a poor widow all alone with her little son, a six-year-old boy.\ The house door opened straight on to the hillside, and all around about were moorlands and huge stones, and swampy hollows; never a house nor a sign of life wherever you might look, for their nearest neighbors were the fairies in the glen below, and the "will-o'-the-wisps" in the long grass along the path-side.\ And many a tale the widow could tell of the "good folk" calling to each other in the oak trees, and the twinkling lights hopping on to the very windowsill, on dark nights; but in spite of the loneliness, she lived on from year to year in the little house, perhaps because she was never asked to pay any rent for it.\ But she did not care to sit up late, when the fire burned low, and no one knew what might be about. So, when they had had their supper she would make up a good fire and go off to bed, so that if anything terrible did happen, she could always hide her head under the bedclothes.\ This, however, was far too early to please her little son; so when she called him to bed, he would go on playing beside the fire, as if he did not hear her.\ He had always been bad to do with since the day he was born, and his mother did not often care to cross him. Indeed, the more she tried to make him obey her, the less heed he paid to anything she said, so it usually ended by his taking his own way.\ But one night, just at the fore-end of winter, the widow could not make up her mind to go off to bed, and leave him playing by the fireside. For the wind was tugging at the door, and rattling the windowpanes, and well she knew that on such a night, fairies and such like were bound to be out and about, and bent on mischief. So she tried to coax the boy into going at once to bed:\ "It's safest to bide in bed on such a night as this!" she said. But no, he wouldn't go.\ Then she threatened to "give him the stick," but it was no use.\ The more she begged and scolded, the more he shook his head; and when at last she lost patience and cried that the fairies would surely come and fetch him away, he only laughed and said he wished they would, for he would like one to play with.\ At that his mother burst into tears, and went off to bed in despair, certain that after such words something dreadful would happen, while her naughty little son sat on his stool by the fire, not at all put out by her crying.\ But he had not long been sitting there alone, when he heard a fluttering sound near him in the chimney, and presently down by his side dropped the tiniest wee girl you could think of. She was not a span high, and had hair like spun silver, eyes as green as grass, and cheeks red as June roses.\ The little boy looked at her with surprise.\ "Oh!" said he, "what do they call ye?"\ "My own self," she said in a shrill but sweet little voice, and she looked at him too. "And what do they call ye?"\ "Just my own self too," he answered cautiously; and with that they began to play together.\ She certainly showed him some fine games. She made animals out of the ashes that looked and moved like life, and trees with green leaves waving over tiny houses, with men and women an inch high in them, who, when she breathed on them, fell to walking and talking quite properly.\ But the fire was getting low, and the light dim, and presently the little boy stirred the coals with a stick, to make them blaze, when out jumped a red-hot cinder, and where should it fall, but on the fairy child's tiny foot!\ Thereupon she set up such a squeal, that the boy dropped the stick, and clapped his hands to his ears. But it grew to so shrill a screech, that it was like all the wind in the world, whistling through one tiny keyhole!\ There was a sound in the chimney again, but this time the little boy did not wait to see what it was, but bolted off to bed, where he hid under the blankets and listened in fear and trembling to what went on.\ A voice came from the chimney speaking sharply:\ "Who's there, and what's wrong?" it said.\ "It's my own self," sobbed the fairy child, "and my loot's burned sore. O-o-h!"\ "Who did it?" said the voice angrily. This time it sounded nearer, and the boy, peeping from under the clothes, could see a white face looking out from the chimney opening!\ "Just my own self too!" said the fairy child again.\ "Then if ye did it your own self," cried the elf mother shrilly, "what's the use o' making all this fuss about it?" — and with that she stretched out a long thin arm, and caught the creature by its ear, and, shaking it roughly, pulled it after her, out of sight up the chimney!\ The little boy lay awake a long time, listening, in case the fairy mother should come back after all. And next evening after supper, his mother was surprised to find that he was willing to go to bed whenever she liked.\ "He's taking a turn for the better at last!" she said to herself. But he was thinking just then that, when next a fairy came to play with him, he might not get off quite so easily as he had done this time.\ To the Little Girl Who Wriggles\ Laura E. Richards\ In which we learn to sit still.\ Don't wriggle about anymore, my dear!\ I'm sure all your joints must be sore, my dear!\ It's wriggle and jiggle, it's twist and it's wiggle,\ Like an eel on a shingly shore, my dear,\ Like an eel on a shingly shore.\ Oh! how do you think you would feel, my dear,\ If you should turn into an eel, my dear?\ With never an arm to protect you from harm,\ And no sign of a toe or a heel, my dear,\ No sign of a toe or a heel?\ And what do you think you would do, my dear,\ Far down in the water so blue, my dear,\ Where the prawns and the shrimps, with their curls and their crimps,\ Would turn up their noses at you, my dear,\ Would turn up their noses at you?\ The crab he would give you a nip, my dear,\ And the lobster would lend you a clip, my dear.\ And perhaps if a shark should come by in the dark,\ Down his throat you might happen to slip, my dear,\ Down his throat you might happen to slip.\ Then try to sit still on your chair, my dear!\ To your parents 'tis no more than fair, my dear.\ For we really don't feel like inviting an eel\ Our board and our lodging to share, my dear,\ Our board and our lodging to share.\ \ Jim,\ Who ran away from his Nurse, and was eaten by a Lion.\ Hilaire Belloc\ In which we discover the kind of gruesome end that comes to children who dart away from their mothers into streets, run away from their fathers at crowded ball parks, dash screaming down grocery store aisles, and who in general cannot bring themselves to hold on to the hand they are told to hold.\ There was a Boy whose name was Jim;\ His Friends were very good to him.\ They gave him Tea, and Cakes, and Jam,\ And slices of delicious Ham,\ And Chocolate with pink inside,\ And little Tricycles to ride,\ And read him Stories through and through,\ And even took him to the Zoo —\ But there it was the dreadful Fate\ Befell him, which I now relate.\ You know — at least you ought to know,\ For I have often told you so —\ That Children never are allowed\ To leave their Nurses in a Crowd;\ Now this was Jim's especial Foible,\ He ran away when he was able,\ And on this inauspicious day\ He slipped his hand and ran away!\ He hadn't gone a yard when — Bang!\ With open Jaws, a Lion sprang,\ And hungrily began to eat\ The Boy: beginning at his feet.\ Now just imagine how it feels\ When first your toes and then your heels,\ And then by gradual degrees,\ Your shins and ankles, calves and knees,\ Are slowly eaten, bit by bit.\ No wonder Jim detested it!\ No wonder that he shouted "Hi!"\ The Honest Keeper heard his cry,\ Though very fat he almost ran\ To help the little gentleman.\ 'Ponto!" he ordered as he came\ (For Ponto was the Lion's name),\ "Ponto!" he cried, with angry Frown.\ "Let go, Sir! Down, Sir! Put it down!"\ The Lion made a sudden Stop,\ He let the Dainty Morsel drop,\ And slunk reluctant to his Cage,\ Snarling with Disappointed Rage.\ But when he bent him over Jim,\ The Honest Keeper's Eyes were dim.\ The Lion having reached his Head,\ The Miserable Boy was dead!\ When Nurse informed his Parents, they\ Were more Concerned than I can say:\ His Mother, as She dried her eyes,\ Said, "Well — it gives me no surprise,\ He would not do as he was told!"\ His Father, who was self-controlled,\ Bade all the children round attend\ To James' miserable end,\ And always keep a-hold of Nurse\ For fear of finding something worse.\ \ The Duel\ Eugene Field\ In which we discover the unfortunate consequences of fighting.\ The gingham dog and the calico cat\ Side by side on the table sat;\ 'Twas half past twelve, and (what do you think!)\ Nor one nor t'other had slept a wink!\ The old Dutch clock and the Chinese plate\ Appeared to know as sure as fate\ There was going to be a terrible spat.\ (I wasn't there; I simply state What was told to me by the Chinese plate!)\ The gingham dog went "bow-wow-wow!"\ And the calico cat replied "mee-ow!"\ The air was littered an hour or so,\ With bits of gingham and calico.\ While the old Dutch clock in the chimney place\ Up with its hands before its face,\ For it always dreaded a family row!\ (Now mind; I'm only telling you What the old Dutch clock declares is true!)\ The Chinese plate looked very blue,\ And wailed, "Oh, dear! what shall we do!"\ But the gingham dog and the calico cat\ Wallowed this way and tumbled that,\ Employing every tooth and claw\ In the awfullest way you ever saw —\ And, oh! how the gingham and calico flew!\ (Don't fancy I exaggerate — I got my news from the Chinese plate!)\ Next morning, where the two had sat\ They found no trace of dog or cat;\ And some folks think unto this day\ That burglars stole that pair away!\ But the truth about the cat and pup\ Is this: they ate each other up!\ Now what do you really think of that!\ (The old Dutch clock it told me so, And that is how I came to know.)\ \ Let Dogs Delight to Bark and Bite\ Isaac Watts\ Let dogs delight to bark and bite,\ For God hath made them so;\ Let bears and lions growl and fight,\ For 'tis their nature too.\ But, children, you should never let\ Such angry passions rise;\ Your little hands were never made\ To tear each other's eyes.\ \ The King and His Hawk\ Retold by James Baldwin\ Thomas Jefferson gave us simple but effective advice about controlling our temper: count to ten before you do anything, and if very angry, count to a hundred. Genghis Khan (c. 11621227), whose Mongol empire stretched from eastern Europe to the Sea of Japan, could have used Jefferson's remedy in this tale.\ Genghis Khan was a great king and warrior.\ He led his army into China and Persia, and he conquered many lands. In every country, men told about his daring deeds, and they said that since Alexander the Great there had been no king like him.\ One morning when he was home from the wars, he rode out into the woods to have a day's sport. Many of his friends were with him. They rode out gayly, carrying their bows and arrows. Behind them came the servants with the hounds.\ It was a merry hunting party. The woods rang with their shouts and laughter. They expected to carry much game home in the evening.\ On the king's wrist sat his favorite hawk, for in those days hawks were trained to hunt. At a word from their masters they would fly high up into the air, and look around for prey. If they chanced to see a deer or a rabbit, they would swoop down upon it swift as any arrow.\ All day long Genghis Khan and his huntsmen rode through the woods. But they did not find as much game as they expected.\ Toward evening they started for home. The king had often ridden through the woods, and he knew all the paths. So while the rest of the party took the nearest way, he went by a longer road through a valley between two mountains.\ The day had been warm, and the king was very thirsty. His pet hawk had left his wrist and flown away. It would be sure to find its way home.\ The king rode slowly along. He had once seen a spring of clear water near this pathway. If he could only find it now! But the hot days of summer had dried up all the mountain brooks.\ At last, to his joy, he saw some water trickling down over the edge of a rock. He knew that there was a spring farther up. In the wet season, a swift stream of water always poured down here; but now it came only one drop at a time.\ The king leaped from his horse. He took a little silver cup from his hunting bag. He held it so as to catch the slowly falling drops.\ It took a long time to fill the cup; and the king was so thirsty that he could hardly wait. At last it was nearly full. He put the cup to his lips, and was about to drink.\ All at once there was a whirring sound in the air, and the cup was knocked from his hands. The water was all spilled upon the ground.\ The king looked up to see who had done this thing. It was his pet hawk.\ The hawk flew back and forth a few times, and then alighted among the rocks by the spring.\ The king picked up the cup, and again held it to catch the trickling drops.\ This time he did not wait so long. When the cup was half full, he lifted it toward his mouth. But before it had touched his lips, the hawk swooped down again, and knocked it from his hands.\ And now the king began to grow angry. He tried again, and for the third time the hawk kept him from drinking.\ The king was now very angry indeed.\ "How do you dare to act so?" he cried. "If I had you in my hands, I would wring your neck!"\ Then he filled the cup again. But before he tried to drink, he drew his sword.\ "Now, Sir Hawk," he said, "this is the last time."\ He had hardly spoken before the hawk swooped down and knocked the cup from his hand. But the king was looking for this. With a quick sweep of the sword he struck the bird as it passed.\ The next moment the poor hawk lay bleeding and dying at its master's feet.\ "That is what you get for your pains," said Genghis Khan.\ But when he looked for his cup, he found that it had fallen between two rocks, where he could not reach it.\ "At any rate, I will have a drink from that spring," he said to himself.\ With that he began to climb the steep bank to the place from which the water trickled. It was hard work, and the higher he climbed, the thirstier he became.\ At last he reached the place. There indeed was a pool of water; but what was that lying in the pool, and almost filling it? It was a huge, dead snake of the most poisonous kind.\ The king stopped. He forgot his thirst. He thought only of the poor dead bird lying on the ground below him.\ "The hawk saved my life!" he cried, "and how did I repay him? He was my best friend, and I have killed him."\ He clambered down the bank. He took the bird up gently, and laid it in his hunting bag. Then he mounted his horse and rode swiftly home. He said to himself,\ "I have learned a sad lesson today, and that is, never to do anything in anger."\ Anger\ Charles and Mary Lamb\ Anger in its time and place\ May assume a kind of grace.\ It must have some reason in it,\ And not last beyond a minute.\ If to further lengths it go,\ It does into malice grow.\ 'Tis the difference that we see\ 'Twixt the serpent and the bee.\ If the latter you provoke,\ It inflicts a hasty stroke,\ Puts you to some little pain,\ But it never stings again.\ Close in tufted bush or brake\ Lurks the poison-swelled snake\ Nursing up his cherished wrath;\ In the purlieus of his path,\ In the cold, or in the warm,\ Mean him good, or mean him harm,\ Wheresoever fate may bring you,\ The vile snake will always sting you.\ \ Dirty Jim\ Jane Taylor\ Why should we bother to practice cleanliness? Aside from some very good practical considerations, Francis Bacon reminded us why: "For cleanness of body was ever esteemed to proceed from a due reverence to God, to society, and to ourselves."\ There was one little Jim,\ 'Tis reported of him,\ And must be to his lasting disgrace,\ That he never was seen\ With hands at all clean,\ Nor yet ever clean was his face.\ His friends were much hurt\ To see so much dirt,\ And often they made him quite clean;\ But all was in vain,\ He got dirty again,\ And not at all fit to be seen.\ It gave him no pain\ To hear them complain,\ Nor his own dirty clothes to survey;\ His indolent mind\ No pleasure could find\ In tidy and wholesome array.\ The idle and bad,\ Like this little lad,\ May love dirty ways, to be sure;\ But good boys are seen,\ To be decent and clean,\ Although they are ever so poor.\ \ Washing\ Dear Lord, sometimes my hair gets quite\ Untidy, rough, and mussy;\ And when my Mother makes it right\ I'm apt to think she's fussy.\ My hands get black with different dirts,\ And when no one is present,\ I don't half wash; I think it hurts\ To make myself more pleasant.\ Please make me feel that Cleanliness\ Is just a proper virtue,\ And that cold water's here to bless,\ And never here to hurt you.\ Please show me how I always can\ Do simple things, that lead to\ The making of a gentleman,\ And wash, because I need to.\ \ Table Rules for Little Folks\ In which we learn how to take our daily bread.\ In silence I must take my seat,\ And give God thanks before I eat;\ Must for my food in patience wait,\ Till I am asked to hand my plate;\ I must not scold, nor whine, nor pout,\ Nor move my chair nor plate about;\ With knife, or fork, or napkin ring,\ I must not play, nor must I sing.\ I must not speak a useless word,\ For children should be seen, not heard;\ I must not talk about my food,\ Nor fret if I don't think it good;\ I must not say, "The bread is old,"\ "The tea is hot," "The coffee's cold";\ My mouth with food I must not crowd,\ Nor while I'm eating speak aloud;\ Must turn my head to cough or sneeze,\ And when I ask, say "If you please";\ The tablecloth I must not spoil,\ Nor with my food my fingers soil;\ Must keep my seat when I have done,\ Nor round the table sport or run;\ When told to rise, then I must put\ My chair away with noiseless foot;\ And lift my heart to God above,\ In praise for all his wondrous love.\ \ The Little Gentleman\ Take your meals, my little man,\ Always like a gentleman;\ Wash your face and hands with care,\ Change your shoes, and brush your hair;\ Then so fresh, and clean and neat,\ Come and take your proper seat;\ Do not loiter and be late,\ Making other people wait;\ Do not rudely point or touch:\ Do not eat and drink too much:\ Finish what you have before\ You even ask or send for more:\ Never crumble or destroy\ Food that others might enjoy;\ They who idly crumbs will waste\ Often want a loaf to taste!\ Never spill your milk or tea,\ Never rude or noisy be;\ Never choose the daintiest food,\ Be content with what is good:\ Seek in all things that you can\ To be a little gentleman.\ \ Our Lips and Ears\ In which we learn how to conduct our conversation.\ If you your lips would keep from slips,\ Five things observe with care:\ Of whom you speak, to whom you speak,\ And how and when and where.\ If you your ears would save from jeers,\ These things keep meekly hid:\ Myself and I, and mine and my,\ And how I do and did.\ \ Little Fred\ In which we learn how to retire for the evening.\ When little Fred\ Was called to bed,\ He always acted right;\ He kissed Mama,\ And then Papa,\ And wished them all good night.\ He made no noise,\ Like naughty boys,\ But gently up the stairs\ Directly went,\ When he was sent,\ And always said his prayers.\ \ The Story of Augustus, Who Would Not Have Any Soup\ Heinrich Hoffmann\ In which we see the inevitable result of not eating enough of the right stuff.\ Augustus was a chubby lad;\ Fat, ruddy cheeks Augustus had;\ And everybody saw with joy\ The plump and hearty, healthy boy.\ He ate and drank as he was told,\ And never let his soup get cold.\ But one day, one cold winter's day,\ He screamed out — "Take the soup away!\ O take the nasty soup away!\ I won't have any soup today."\ Next day begins his tale of woes;\ Quite lank and lean Augustus grows.\ Yet, though he feels so weak and ill,\ The naughty fellow cries out still —\ "Not any soup for me, I say:\ O take the nasty soup away!\ I won't have any soup today."\ The third day comes; O what a sin!\ To make himself so pale and thin.\ Yet, when the soup is put on table,\ He screams, as loud as he is able-\ "Not any soup for me, I say:\ O take the nasty soup away!\ I won't have any soup today."\ Look at him, now the fourth day's come!\ He scarcely weighs a sugarplum;\ He's like a little bit of thread,\ And on the fifth day, he was — dead!\ \ The Vulture\ Hilaire Belloc\ This one belongs on the refrigerator door.\ The Vulture eats between his meals,\ And that's the reason why\ He very, very rarely feels\ As well as you or I.\ His eye is dull, his head is bald,\ His neck is growing thinner.\ Oh, what a lesson for us all\ To only eat at dinner.\ \ The Boy and the Nuts\ Aesop\ One good, practical reason for controlling our cravings is that if we grasp for too much, we may end up getting nothing at all.\ A little boy once found a jar of nuts on the table.\ "I would like some of these nuts," he thought. "I'm sure Mother would give them to me if she were here. I'll take a big handful." So he reached into the jar and grabbed as many as he could hold.\ But when he tried to pull his hand out, he found the neck of the jar was too small. His hand was held fast, but he did not want to drop any of the nuts.\ He tried again and again, but he couldn't get the whole handful out. At last he began to cry.\ Just then his mother came into the room. "What's the matter?" she asked.\ "I can't take this handful of nuts out of the jar," sobbed the boy.\ "Well, don't be so greedy," his mother replied. "Just take two or three, and you'll have no trouble getting your hand out."\ "How easy that was," said the boy as he left the table. "I might have thought of that myself."\ The Goose That Laid the Golden Eggs\ Aesop\ Here is Aesop's classic fable about plenty not being enough, about what happens when "having it all" becomes the motto of the day.\ A man and his wife had the good fortune to possess a goose that laid a golden egg every day. Lucky though they were, they soon began to think they were not getting rich fast enough, and, imagining the bird must be made of gold inside, they decided to kill it in order to secure the whole store of precious metal at once. But when they cut it open they found it was just like any other goose. Thus, they neither got rich all at once, as they had hoped, nor enjoyed any longer the daily addition to their wealth.\ Much wants more and loses all.\ The Flies and the Honey Pot\ Aesop\ A jar of honey chanced to spill\ Its contents on the windowsill\ In many a viscous pool and rill.\ The flies, attracted by the sweet,\ Began so greedily to eat,\ They smeared their fragile wings and feet.\ With many a twitch and pull in vain\ They gasped to get away again,\ And died in aromatic pain.\ Moral\ O foolish creatures that destroy\ Themselves for transitory joy.\ \ Mr. Vinegar and His Fortune\ Retold by James Baldwin\ A runaway appetite is just about the surest ticket to never getting anywhere. The English philosopher John Locke put it this way: "He that has not a mastery over his inclinations; he that knows not how to resist the importunity of present pleasure or pain, for the sake of what reason tells him is fit to be done, wants the true principle of virtue and industry, and is in danger of never being good for anything." Meet Mr. Vinegar, who is in such danger.\ A long time ago there lived a poor man whose real name has been forgotten. He was little and old, and his face was wrinkled; and that is why his friends called him Mr. Vinegar.\ His wife was also little and old, and they lived in a little old cottage at the back of a little old field.\ One day when Mrs. Vinegar was sweeping, she swept so hard that the little old door of the cottage fell down.\ She was frightened. She ran out into the field and cried, "John! John! The house is falling down. We shall have no shelter over our heads."\ Mr. Vinegar came and looked at the door.\ Then he said, "Don't worry about that, my dear. Put on your bonnet and we will go out and seek our fortune."\ So Mrs. Vinegar put on her hat, and Mr. Vinegar put the door on his head and they started.\ They walked and walked all day. At night they came to a dark forest where there were many tall trees.\ "Here is a good place to lodge," said Mr. Vinegar.\ So he climbed a tree and laid the door across some branches. Then Mrs. Vinegar climbed the tree, and the two laid themselves down on the door.\ "It is better to have the house under us than over us," said Mr. Vinegar. But Mrs. Vinegar was fast asleep, and did not hear him.\ Soon it was pitch dark, and Mr. Vinegar also fell asleep. At midnight he was awakened by hearing a noise below him.\ He started up. He listened.\ "Here are ten gold pieces for you, Jack," he heard someone say. "And here are ten pieces for you, Bill. I'll keep the rest for myself."\ Mr. Vinegar looked down. He saw three men sitting on the ground. A lighted lantern was near them.\ "Robbers!" he cried in great fright, and sprang to a higher branch.\ As he did this he kicked the door from its resting place. The door fell crashing to the ground, and Mrs. Vinegar fell with it.\ The robbers were so badly scared that they took to their heels and ran helter-skelter into the dark woods.\ "Are you hurt, my dear?" asked Mr. Vinegar.\ "Ah, no!" said his wife. "But who would have thought that the door would tumble down in the night? And here is a beautiful lantern, all lit and burning, to show us where we are."\ Mr. Vinegar scrambled to the ground. He picked up the lantern to look at it. But what were those shining things that he saw lying all around?\ "Gold pieces! Gold pieces!" he cried. And he picked one up and held it to the light.\ "We've found our fortune! We've found our fortune!" cried Mrs. Vinegar. And she jumped up and down for joy.\ They gathered up the gold pieces. There were fifty of them, all bright and yellow and round.\ "How lucky we are!" said Mr. Vinegar.\ "How lucky we are!" said Mrs. Vinegar.\ Then they sat down and looked at the gold till morning.\ "Now, John," said Mrs. Vinegar, "I'll tell you what we'll do. You must go to the town and buy a cow. I will milk her and churn butter, and we shall never want for anything."\ "That is a good plan," said Mr. Vinegar.\ So he started off to the town, while his wife waited by the roadside.\ Mr. Vinegar walked up and down the street of the town, looking for a cow. After a time a farmer came that way, leading one that was very pretty and fat.\ "Oh, if I only had that cow," said Mr. Vinegar, "I would be the happiest man in the world."\ "She is a very good cow," said the farmer.\ "Well," said Mr. Vinegar, "I will give you these fifty gold pieces for her."\ The farmer smiled and held out his hand for the money. "You may have her," he said. "I always like to oblige my friends."\ Mr. Vinegar took hold of the cow's halter and led her up and down the street. "I am the luckiest man in the world," he said, "for only see how all the people are looking at me and my cow."\ But at one end of the street he met a man playing bagpipes. He stopped and listened. Tweedle-dee, tweedle-dee!\ "Oh, that is the sweetest music I ever heard," he said. "And just see how all the children crowd around the man and give him pennies! If I only had those bagpipes, I would be the happiest man in the world."\ "I will sell them to you," said the piper.\ "Will you? Well then, since I have no money, I will give you this cow for them."\ "You may have them," answered the piper. "I always like to oblige a friend."\ Mr. Vinegar took the bagpipes, and the piper led the cow away.\ "Now we will have some music," said Mr. Vinegar. But try as hard as he might, he could not play a tune. He could get nothing out of the bagpipes but "squeak! squeak!"\ The children, instead of giving him pennies, laughed at him. The day was chilly, and, in trying to play the pipes his fingers grew very cold. He wished that he had kept the cow.\ He had just started for home when he met a man who had warm gloves on his hands. "Oh, if I only had those pretty gloves," he said, "I would be the happiest man in the world."\ "How much will you give for them?" asked the man.\ "I have no money, but I will give you these bagpipes," answered Mr. Vinegar.\ "Well," said the man, "you may have them, for I always like to oblige a friend."\ Mr. Vinegar gave him the bagpipes and drew the gloves on over his half-frozen fingers. "How lucky I am!" he said, as he trudged homeward.\ His hands were soon quite warm, but the road was rough and the walking hard. He was very tired when he came to the foot of a steep hill.\ "How shall I ever get to the top?" he said.\ Just then he met a man who was walking the other way. He had a stick in his hand which he used as a cane to help him along.\ "My friend," said Mr. Vinegar, "if I only had that stick of yours to help me up this hill, I would be the happiest man in the world."\ "How much will you give me for it?" asked the man.\ "I have no money, but I will give you this pair of warm gloves," said Mr. Vinegar.\ "Well," said the man, "you may have it, for I always like to oblige a friend."\ Mr. Vinegar's hands were now quite warm. So he gave the gloves to the man and took the stout stick to help him along.\ "How lucky I am," he said, as he toiled upward.\ At the top of the hill he stopped to rest. But as he was thinking of all his good luck that day, he heard someone calling his name. He looked up and saw only a green parrot sitting in a tree.\ "Mr. Vinegar! Mr. Vinegar!" it cried.\ "What now?" asked Mr. Vinegar.\ "You're a dunce! You're a dunce!" answered the bird. "You went to seek your fortune, and you found it. Then you gave it for a cow, and the cow for some bagpipes, and the bagpipes for some gloves, and the gloves for a stick which you might have cut by the roadside. Hee! hee! hee! hee! hee! You're a dunce! You're a dunce!"\ This made Mr. Vinegar very angry. He threw the stick at the bird with all his might. But the bird only answered, "You're a dunce! You're a dunce!" and the stick lodged in the tree where he could not get it again.\ Mr. Vinegar went on slowly, for he had many things to think about. His wife was standing by the roadside, and as soon as she saw him she cried out, "Where's the cow? Where's the cow?"\ "Well, I don't just know where the cow is," said Mr. Vinegar; and then he told her the whole story.\ I have heard she said some things he liked even less than what the bird had said, but that is between Mr. and Mrs. Vinegar, and really nobody's business but theirs.\ "We are no worse off than we were yesterday," said Mr. Vinegar. "Let us go home and take care of our little old house."\ Then he put the door on his head and trudged onward. And Mrs. Vinegar followed him.\ The Frogs and the Well\ Aesop\ The prudent person looks before leaping.\ Two frogs lived together in a marsh. But one hot summer the marsh dried up, and they left it to look for another place to live in, for frogs like damp places if they can get them. By and by they came to a deep well, and one of them looked down into it, and said to the other, "This looks a nice cool place. Let us jump in and settle here." But the other, who had a wiser head on his shoulders, replied, "Not so fast, my friend. Supposing this well dried up like the marsh, how should we get out again?"\ Think twice before you act.\ The Fisherman and His Wife\ Retold by Clifton Johnson\ The ancient Greeks had a famous saying: "Nothing overmuch." The maxim calls not for total abstinence, but rather reminds us to avoid excess. We should know that too much of anything, even a good thing, may prove to be our undoing, as this old tale shows. We need to recognize when enough is enough.\ There was once a fisherman who lived with his wife in a poor little hut close by the sea. One day, as the fisherman sat on the rocks at the water's edge fishing with his rod and line, a fish got caught on his hook that was so big and pulled so stoutly that he captured it with the greatest difficulty. He was feeling much pleased that he had secured so big a fish when he was surprised by hearing it say to him, "Pray let me live. I am not a real fish. I am a magician. Put me in the water and let me go."\ "You need not make so many words about the matter," said the man. "I wish to have nothing to do with a fish that can talk."\ Then he removed it from his hook and put it back into the water. "Now swim away as soon as you please," said the man, and the fish darted straight down to the bottom.\ The fisherman returned to his little hut and told his wife how he had caught a great fish, and how it had told him it was a magician, and how, when he heard it speak, he had let it go.\ "Did you not ask it for anything?" said the wife.\ "No," replied the man. "What should I ask for?"\ "What should you ask for!" exclaimed the wife. "You talk as if we had everything we want, but see how wretchedly we live in this dark little hut. Do go back and tell the fish we want a comfortable house."\ The fisherman did not like to undertake such an errand. However, as his wife had bidden him to go, he went; and when he came to the sea the water looked all yellow and green. He stood on the rocks where he had fished and said,\ "Oh, man of the sea!\ Come listen to me;\ For Alice my wife,\ The plague of my life,\ Hath sent me to beg a gift of thee!"\ \ Then the fish came swimming to him and said, "Well, what does she want?"\ "Ah," answered the fisherman, "my wife says that when I had caught you I ought to have asked you for something before I let you go. She does not like living any longer in our little hut. She wants a comfortable house."\ "Go home then," said the fish. "She is in the house she wants already."\ So the man went home and found his wife standing in the doorway of a comfortable house, and behind the house was a yard with ducks and chickens picking about in it, and beyond the yard was a garden where grew all sorts of flowers and fruits. "How happily we shall live now!" said the fisherman.\ Everything went right for a week or two, and then the wife said, "Husband, there is not enough room in this house, and the yard and garden are a great deal smaller than they ought to be. I would like to have a large stone castle to live in. So go to the fish again and tell him to give us a castle."\ "Wife," said the fisherman, "I don't like to go to him again, for perhaps he will be angry. We ought to be content with a good house like this."\ "Nonsense!" said the wife. "He will give us a castle very willingly. Go along and try."\ The fisherman went, but his heart was heavy, and when he came to the sea the water was a dark gray color and looked very gloomy. He stood on the rocks at the water's edge and said,\ "Oh, man of the sea!\ Come listen to me;\ For Alice my wife,\ The plague of my life,\ Hath sent me to beg a gift of thee!"\ \ Then the fish came swimming to him and said, "Well, what does she want now?"\ "Ah," replied the man very sorrowfully, "my wife wants to live in a stone castle."\ "Go home then," said the fish. "She is at the castle already."\ So away went the fisherman and found his wife standing before a great castle. "See," said she, "is not this fine?"\ They went into the castle, and many servants were there, and the rooms were richly furnished with handsome chairs and tables; and behind the castle was a park half a mile long, full of sheep and goats and rabbits and deer.\ "Now," said the man, "we will live contented and happy in this beautiful castle for the rest of our lives."\ "Perhaps so," responded the wife. "But let us consider and sleep on it before we make up our minds." And they went to bed.\ The next morning when they awoke it was broad daylight, and the wife jogged the fisherman with her elbow and said, "Get up, husband; bestir yourself, for we must be king and queen of all the land."\ "Wife, wife," said the man, "'why should we wish to be king and queen? I would not be king even if I could be."\ "Well, I will be queen, anyway," said the wife. "Say no more about it; but go to the fish and tell him what I want."\ So the man went, but he felt very sad to think that his wife should want to be queen. The sea was muddy and streaked with foam as he cried out,\ "Oh, man of the sea!\ Come listen to me;\ For Alice my wife,\ The plague of my life,\ Hath sent me to beg a gift of thee!"\ \ Then the fish came swimming to him and said, "Well, what would she have now?"\ "Alas!" said the man. "My wife wants to be queen."\ "Go home," said the fish. "She is queen already."\ So the fisherman turned back and presently he came to a palace, and before it he saw a troop of soldiers, and he heard the sound of drums and trumpets. Then he entered the palace and there he found his wife sitting on a throne, with a golden crown on her head, and on each side of her stood six beautiful maidens.\ "Well, wife," said the fisherman, "are you queen?"\ "Yes," she replied, "I am queen."\ When he had looked at her for a long time he said, "Ah, wife, what a fine thing it is to be queen! Now we shall never have anything more to wish for."\ "I don't know how that may be," said she. "Never is a long time. I am queen, 'tis true, but I begin to be tired of it. I think I would like to be pope next."\ "Oh, wife, wife!" the man exclaimed. "How can you be pope? There is but one pope at a time in all Christendom."\ "Husband," said she, "I will be pope this very day."\ "Ah, wife!" responded the fisherman. "The fish cannot make you pope and I would not like to ask for such a thing."\ "What nonsense!" said she. "If he can make a queen, he can make a pope. Go and try."\ So the fisherman went, and when he came to the shore the wind was raging and the waves were dashing on the rocks most fearfully, and the sky was dark with flying clouds. The fisherman was frightened, but nevertheless he obeyed his wife and called out,\ "Oh, man of the sea!\ Come listen to me;\ For Alice my wife,\ The plague of my life,\ Hath sent me to beg a gift of thee!"\ \ Then the fish came swimming to him and said, "What does she want this time?"\ "Ah," said the fisherman, "my wife wants to be pope."\ "Go home," commanded the fish. "She is pope already."\ So the fisherman went home and found his wife sitting on a throne that was a hundred feet high, and on either side many candles of all sizes were burning, and she had three great crowns on her head one above the other and was surrounded by all the pomp and power of the church.\ "Wife," said the fisherman, as he gazed at all this magnificence, "are you pope?"\ "Yes," she replied, "I am pope."\ "Well, wife," said he, "it is a grand thing to be pope. And now you must be content, for you can be nothing greater."\ "We will see about that," she said.\ Then they went to bed; but the wife could not sleep because all night long she was trying to think what she should be next. At last morning came and the sun rose. "Ha!" cried she. "I was about to sleep, had not the sun disturbed me with its bright light. Cannot I prevent the sun rising?" and she became very angry and said to her husband, "Go to the fish and tell him I want to be lord of the sun and moon."\ "Alas, wife," said he, "can you not be content to be pope?"\ "No," said she, "I am very uneasy, and cannot bear to see the sun and moon rise without my leave. Go to the fish at once!"\ The man went, and as he approached the shore a dreadful storm arose so that the trees and rocks shook, and the sky grew black, and the lightning flashed, and the thunder rolled, and the sea was covered with vast waves like mountains. The fisherman trembled so that his knees knocked together, and he had hardly strength to stand in the gale while he called to the fish:\ "Oh, man of the sea!\ Come listen to me;\ For Alice my wife,\ The plague of my life,\ Hath sent me to beg a gift of thee!"\ \ Then the fish came swimming to him and said, "What more does she want?"\ "Ah," said the man, "she wants to be lord of the sun and moon."\ "Go home to your hut again," said the fish.\ So the man returned, and the palace was gone, and in its place he found the dark little hut that had formerly been his dwelling, and he and his wife have lived in that little hut to this very day.\ The Magic Thread\ Too often, people want what they want (or what they think they want, which is usually "happiness" in one form or another) right now. The irony of their impatience is that only by learning to wait, and by a willingness to accept the bad with the good, do we usually attain those things that are truly worthwhile. "He that can have patience, can have what he will," Benjamin Franklin told us, and this French tale bears him out.\ Once there was a widow who had a son called Peter. He was a strong, able boy, but he did not enjoy going to school and he was forever daydreaming.\ "Peter, what are you dreaming about this time?" his teacher would say to him.\ "I'm thinking about what I'll be when I grow up," Peter replied.\ "Be patient. There's plenty of time for that. Being grown up isn't all fun, you know," his teacher said.\ But Peter found it hard to enjoy whatever he was doing at the moment, and was always hankering after the next thing. In winter he longed for it to be summer again, and in summer he looked forward to the skating, sledging, and warm fires of winter. At school he would long for the day to be over so that he could go home, and on Sunday nights he would sigh, "If only the holidays would come." What he enjoyed most was playing with his friend Liese. She was as good a companion as any boy, and no matter how impatient Peter was, she never took offense. "When I grow up, I shall marry Liese," Peter said to himself.\ Often he wandered through the forest, dreaming of the future. Sometimes he lay down on the soft forest floor in the warm sun, his hands behind his head, staring up at the sky through the distant treetops. One hot afternoon as he began to grow sleepy, he heard someone calling his name. He opened his eyes and sat up. Standing before him was an old woman. In her hand she held a silver ball, from which dangled a silken golden thread.\ "See what I have got here, Peter," she said, offering the ball to him.\ "What is it?" he asked curiously, touching the fine golden thread.\ "This is your life thread," the old woman replied. "Do not touch it and time will pass normally. But if you wish time to pass more quickly, you have only to pull the thread a little way and an hour will pass like a second. But I warn you, once the thread has been pulled out, it cannot be pushed back in again. It will disappear like a puff of smoke. The ball is for you. But if you accept my gift you must tell no one, or on that very day you shall die. Now, say, do you want it?"\ Peter seized the gift from her joyfully. It was just what he wanted. He examined the silver ball. It was light and solid, made of a single piece. The only flaw in it was the tiny hole from which the bright thread hung. He put the ball in his pocket and ran home. There, making sure that his mother was out, he examined it again. The thread seemed to be creeping very slowly out of the ball, so slowly that it was scarcely noticeable to the naked eye. He longed to give it a quick tug, but dared not do so. Not yet.\ The following day at school, Peter sat daydreaming about what he would do with his magic thread. The teacher scolded him for not concentrating on his work. If only, he thought, it was time to go home. Then he felt the silver ball in his pocket. If he pulled out a tiny bit of thread, the day would be over. Very carefully he took hold of it and tugged. Suddenly the teacher was telling everyone to pack up their books and to leave the classroom in an orderly fashion. Peter was overjoyed. He ran all the way home. How easy life would be now! All his troubles were over. From that day forth he began to pull the thread, just a little, every day.\ One day, however, it occurred to him that it was stupid to pull the thread just a little each day. If he gave it a harder tug, school would be over altogether. Then he could start learning a trade and marry Liese. So that night he gave the thread a hard tug, and in the morning he awoke to find himself apprenticed to a carpenter in town. He loved his new life, clambering about on roofs and scaffolding, lifting and hammering great beams into place that still smelled of the forest. But sometimes, when payday seemed too far off, he gave the thread a little tug and suddenly the week was drawing to a close and it was Friday night and he had money in his pocket.\ Liese had also come to town and was living with her aunt, who taught her housekeeping. Peter began to grow impatient for the day when they would be married. It was hard to live so near and yet so far from her. He asked her when they could be married.\ "In another year," she said. "Then I will have learned how to be a capable wife."\ Peter fingered the silver ball in his pocket.\ "Well, the time will pass quickly enough," he said, knowingly.\ That night Peter could not sleep. He tossed and turned restlessly. He took the magic ball from under his pillow. For a moment he hesitated; then his impatience got the better of him, and he tugged at the golden thread. In the morning he awoke to find that the year was over and that Liese had at last agreed to marry him. Now Peter felt truly happy.\ But before their wedding could take place, Peter received an official-looking letter. He opened it in trepidation and read that he was expected to report at the army barracks the following week for two years' military service. He showed the letter to Liese in despair.\ "Well," she said, "there is nothing for it, we shall just have to wait. But the time will pass quickly, you'll see. There are so many things to do in preparation for our life together."\ Peter smiled bravely, knowing that two years would seem a lifetime to him.\ Once Peter had settled into life at the barracks, however, he began to feel that it wasn't so bad after all. He quite enjoyed being with all the other young men, and their duties were not very arduous at first. He remembered the old woman's warning to use the thread wisely and for a while refrained from pulling it. But in time he grew restless again. Army life bored him with its routine duties and harsh discipline. He began pulling the thread to make the week go faster so that it would be Sunday again, or to speed up the time until he was due for leave. And so the two years passed almost as if they had been a dream.\ Back home, Peter determined not to pull the thread again until it was absolutely necessary. After all, this was the best time of his life, as everyone told him. He did not want it to be over too quickly. He did, however, give the thread one or two very small tugs, just to speed along the day of his marriage. He longed to tell Liese his secret, but he knew that if he did he would die.\ On the day of his wedding, everyone, including Peter, was happy. He could hardly wait to show Liese the house he had built for her. At the wedding feast he glanced over at his mother. He noticed for the first time how gray her hair had grown recently. She seemed to be aging so quickly. Peter felt a pang of guilt that he had pulled the thread so often. Henceforward he would be much more sparing with it and only use it when it was strictly necessary.\ A few months later Liese announced that she was going to have a child. Peter was overjoyed and could hardly wait. When the child was born, he felt that he could never want for anything again. But whenever the child was ill or cried through the sleepless night, he gave the thread a little tug, just so that the baby might be well and happy again.\ Times were hard. Business was bad and a government had come to power that squeezed the people dry with taxes and would tolerate no opposition. Anyone who became known as a troublemaker was thrown into prison without trial and rumor was enough to condemn a man. Peter had always been known as one who spoke his mind, and very soon he was arrested and cast into jail. Luckily he had his magic ball with him and he tugged very hard at the thread. The prison walls dissolved before him and his enemies were scattered in the huge explosion that burst forth like thunder. It was the war that had been threatening, but it was over as quickly as a summer storm, leaving behind it an exhausted peace. Peter found himself back home with his family. But now he was a middle-aged man.\ For a time things went well and Peter lived in relative contentment. One day he looked at his magic ball and saw to his surprise that the thread had turned from gold to silver. He looked in the mirror. His hair was starting to turn gray and his face was lined where before there had not been a wrinkle to be seen. He suddenly felt afraid and determined to use the thread even more carefully than before. Liese bore him more children and he seemed happy as the head of his growing household. His stately manner often made people think of him as some sort of benevolent ruler. He had an air of authority as if he held the fate of others in his hands. He kept his magic ball in a well-hidden place, safe from the curious eyes of his children, knowing that if anyone were to discover it, it would be fatal.\ As the number of his children grew, so his house became more overcrowded. He would have to extend it, but for that he needed money. He had other worries too. His mother was looking older and more tired every day. It was of no use to pull the magic thread because that would only hasten her approaching death. All too soon she died, and as Peter stood at her graveside, he wondered how it was that life passed so quickly, even without pulling the magic thread.\ One night as he lay in bed, kept awake by his worries, he thought how much easier life would be if all his children were grown up and launched upon their careers in life. He gave the thread a mighty tug, and the following day he awoke to find that his children had all left home for jobs in different parts of the country, and that he and his wife were alone. His hair was almost white now and often his back and limbs ached as he climbed the ladder or lifted a heavy beam into place. Liese too was getting old and she was often ill. He couldn't bear to see her suffer, so that more and more he resorted to pulling at the magic thread. But as soon as one trouble was solved, another seemed to grow in its place. Perhaps life would be easier if he retired, Peter thought. Then he would no longer have to clamber about on drafty, half-completed buildings and he could look after Liese when she was ill. The trouble was that he didn't have enough money to live on. He picked up his magic ball and looked at it. To his dismay he saw that the thread was no longer silver but gray and lusterless. He decided to go for a walk in the forest to think things over.\ It was a long time since he had been in that part of the forest. The small saplings had all grown into tall fir trees, and it was hard to find the path he had once known. Eventually he came to a bench in a clearing. He sat down to rest and fell into a light doze. He was woken by someone calling his name, "Peter! Peter!"\ He looked up and saw the old woman he had met so many years ago when she had given him the magic silver ball with its golden thread. She looked just as she had on that day, not a day older. She smiled at him.\ "So, Peter, have you had a good life?" she asked.\ "I'm not sure," Peter said. "Your magic ball is a wonderful thing. I have never had to suffer or wait for anything in my life. And yet it has all passed so quickly. I feel that I have had no time to take in what has happened to me, neither the good things nor the bad. Now there is so little time left. I dare not pull the thread again for it will only bring me to my death. I do not think your gift has brought me luck."\ "How ungrateful you are!" the old woman said. "In what way would you have wished things to be different?"\ "Perhaps if you had given me a different ball, one where I could have pushed the thread back in as well as pulling it out. Then I could have relived the things

ContentsIntroduction1 Self-Discipline2 Compassion3 Responsibility4 Friendship5 Work6 Courage7 Perseverance8 Honesty9 Loyalty10 FaithAcknowledgmentsIndex

\ Publishers Weekly - Publisher's Weekly\ its own reward? A slipcovered, paperback set of four stories from the PBS animated series Adventures from the Book of Virtues, based in turn on William J. Bennett's The Book of Virtues, extols four different virtues. Each title is adapted by Shelagh Canning, illus. by Davis Henry, and contains a two-page story-within-a-story: for example, Honesty: Zach's Tall Tale uses the tale of George Washington and the cherry tree. Other titles include Courage: Annie's Race; Compassion: Zach Lends a Hand; and Responsibility: Annie Shows Off. Unfortunately neither the art nor the prose do much to make the morals very lively. The books are also available separately.\ \ \ \ \ Library JournalBelieving with Plato that ``tales which the young first hear should be models of virtuous thought,'' former Secretary of Education Bennett ( The De-Valuing of America , LJ 4/1/92) has produced a McGuffey's Reader for the Nineties. The author draws upon a variety of literature ranging from biblical stories to political legends and speeches to illustrate the catalog of virtues--self-discipline, compassion, work, responsibility, friendship, courage, perseverance, honesty, loyalty, faith--that he believes are foundational to strong moral character. Most selections are introduced by a short thematic note, e.g., ``an honest heart will always find friends.'' Bennett's elevation of these virtues to moral absolutes renders the book's view of morality rather simplistic. In addition, the collection's lack of attention to women's and non-Western voices encourages the view that the experience of virtue belongs primarily to Western males. Still, this anthology will prove popular with some readers. Recommended for public libraries.-- Henry L. Carrigan Jr., Westerville P.L., Ohio\ \ \ Denise Perry DonavinThe principled former secretary of education has culled a selection of poems and stories to be read aloud in hopes of passing on specific virtues to the younger generation. The selected works appear under chapter titles such as "Compassion"; "Responsibility"; "Friendship"; "Courage"; "Perseverance"; and "Faith." As artificial or perhaps self-righteous as this project may seem, it is effective. The old stories from the Bible, from great authors, and from folklore do exert a charm and send a message that will stir families to discuss or contemplate the issues set forth. It truly is a treasury, with some tales so brief they can be read at the dinner table. Perfect bedtime, anytime family reading.\ \ \ \ \ BooknewsA thoughtful collection of stories, essays, poems and speeches assembled with commentary by Bennett to illustrate various moral virtues such as self-discipline, compassion, and honesty. Annotation c. Book News, Inc., Portland, OR (booknews.com)\ \