In Sheep's Clothing: Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People
Whether it's your mate or child who knows how to push your buttons, the coworker who quietly undermines your efforts while professing to be helpful, or the boss who preys on your weaknesses, manipulative people have two goals: to win and to look good doing it. Often those they abuse are ignorant of, or only vaguely aware of, what is happening to them.\ In Sheep's Clothing casts aside the cloak of secrecy these "wolves" use. Each chapter highlights a specific characteristic using vignettes...
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Whether it's your mate or child who knows how to push your buttons, the coworker who quietly undermines your efforts while professing to be helpful, or the boss who preys on your weaknesses, manipulative people have two goals: to win and to look good doing it. Often those they abuse are ignorant of, or only vaguely aware of, what is happening to them. In Sheep's Clothing casts aside the cloak of secrecy these "wolves" use. Each chapter highlights a specific characteristic using vignettes taken from actual case histories. Then Dr. Simon takes you behind the scenes and between the lines. What on the surface may sound to you like perfectly logical behavior turns out to be cloaked in the most insidious, subtle mantle of manipulation. In Sheep's Clothing also takes a probing look at the important difference between self-respect and self-esteem -- and, in a profound epilogue -- the ways our society now encourages the wrong kind of aggressive behavior. Read this book and have the wool lifted from your eyes.
Part IUnderstanding Manipulative PersonalitiesIntroduction: Covert-Aggression--the Heart of Manipulation31.Aggressive and Covert-Aggressive Personalities132.The Determination to Win313.The Unbridled Quest for Power374.The Penchant for Deception and Seduction435.Fighting Dirty476.The Impaired Conscience537.Abusive, Manipulative Relationships598.The Manipulative Child69Part IIDealing Effectively with Manipulative People9.Recognizing the Tactics of Manipulation and Control7910.Redefining the Terms of Engagement93Epilogue: Aggression and Covert-Aggression in a Permissive and Undisciplined Society113
\ From the Publisher"[After reading In Sheep's Clothing] I am beginning to reclaim my life, find my self-respect and confidence." —-Marc, Virginia\ \
