Written in an intimate tone, this book takes readers through the experience of married women who discover they love women--from coming out to family and friends to first sexual experiences and finding acceptance. In the Life As Ms. Strock holds up glimpses of how different women have answered these questions, she offers a plea for the acceptance of our sexual selves, and the excitement of the continuing journey to self understanding.
Preface xiiiAcknowledgments xvNew Introduction xixOriginal Introduction xxvThe Discovery 1Awakening 3What Am I? 23What Now? 37A New Life 57Do I Tell My Husband or Not? 59The Husbands 73What Do the Kids Think? 87Coming Out to Friends and Family 105Options 123The Reality of Marriage 125Redefined Marriages 147The Single Lovers of Married Women 163Labeling: Lesbian or Bisexual 181Selfhood 193Sexual Intimacy 195New Beginnings 217Where to Turn for Help and Information 233Notes 237Glossary: Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Terminology 243Selected Bibliography 247Additional Reading 251