On Balance
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“Balancing acts,” writes Adam Phillips, “are entertaining because they are risky, but there are situations in which it is more dangerous to keep your balance than to lose it.” In these exhilarating and casually brilliant essays, the philosopher and psychoanalyst examines literature, fairy tales, works of art, and case studies to reveal the paradoxes inherent in our appetites and fears. How do we know when enough is enough? Are there times when too much is just right? Why is Cinderella’s biggest problem not the prince but other women? What can Richard III’s furious sense of his own helplessness tell us of our own desires? On Balance shows Phillips’s bravura gift for linking disparate ideas and the dreamers that dreamed them into something beautiful, revelatory, and essential.Kirkus ReviewsA set of beguiling essays from British psychoanalyst Phillips (Going Sane: Maps of Happiness, 2005, etc.). After the first "Five Short Talks on Excess," entertaining writing holds the other selections together, composed for various British periodicals. The pieces delve into such diverse topics as why we hold fundamentalist beliefs, the ways we gladly subvert ourselves and how the work of Diane Arbus, W.G. Sebald, Daniel Mendelsohn and W.H. Auden ("Forms of Inattention") incites our childish sense of fear and exclusion. Phillips is fascinated by how little we know or trust ourselves, quoting Freud in his ego-and-id analogy-"the not precisely ideal situation of the rider being obliged to guide the horse along the path by which it itself wants to go." In "Excess," the author explores how our reaction to excess in other people-gluttony, greed, sex, religion-reveals a great deal about ourselves: "Tell me which kinds of excess fascinate you, tell me which kinds of excess appall you, and I will tell you who you are." Excess arouses in us specters of frustration, as we have to control ourselves and are frustrated by deprivation. In "On What Is Fundamental," Phillips takes a sober look at the so-called fanatic or extremist, driven "by the logic of his desire to defend tradition . . . forced by the logic of his desire to defend his childhood ethos." Ambivalent and riven by contradictions, modern man resists altering his fundamental beliefs, but might not even know what those really are, or that they might prove destructive to him. In "Negative Capabilities," Phillips, with the help of Shakespeare's Richard III, turns "helplessness" into a positive moral motive and explores universal experiences of perfectionism and feeling lost. Not quite a cohesive collection, but the author provides polished ponderables for all readers.
PrefaceFive Short Talks on Excess 1I In Excess 1II Enough Is Enough 11III Sex Mad 21IV On Being Too Much for Ourselves 31V Believe It or Not 40On What Is Fundamental 49Sleeping It Off 81Children Behaving Badly 85I Should School Make You Happy? 85II Truancy Now 100The Authenticity Issue 105Negative Capabilities 118I The Horse 118II The Helpless 123III The Perfectionist 159IV The Lost 168On Getting Away with It 198Forms of Inattention 213I Arbus's Freaks 213II Celebrating Sebald 226III Mendelsohn's Histories 253IV Auden's Magic 270Mothers and Fairy Tales 288I Jack and His Beanstalk 288II The Least of Her Problems: Cinderella and Men 298Forsaken Favourites 308Acknowledgements 313
