Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends
If you're putting your life back together after a divorce, you need this book! an all new revised, updated and expanded edition of a best-seller!
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This revised, updated third edition of the international bestseller is built on more than two decades of research and practice, incorporating feedback and life experiences of hundreds of thousands of divorced men and women who have read and used Rebuilding. This book has spawned thousands of divorce recovery groups in the U.S.A., Canada, Australia, New Zealand, Mexico, Finland and elsewhere. Fisher's thorough understanding and presentation of the nineteen-stage divorce recovery process is remarkable. Clearly the most widely used approach to divorce recovery, Fisher's rebuilding model has made the divorce process less traumatic, even healthier, for his readers. They often comment, "He seems to know exactly what I'm feeling!" This new edition, revised and updated with the assistance of psychologist and marriage and family therapist Dr. Robert Alberti, continues Bruce's tradition of straight-to-the-heart response to the needs of those who are divorcing or divorced. Journal of Divorce - Esther Oshiver Fisher ...a handbook for the divorcing and divorced that is authentic and which they can employ in the rebuilding of their own lives.
ForewordixIntroduction to the Third Edition11.The Rebuilding Blocks42.Denial "I Can't Believe This is Happening to Me"303.Fear "I Have Lots of It"424.Adaptation "But It Worked When I Was A Kid!"525.Loneliness "I've Never Felt So Alone"666.Friendship "Where Has Everybody Gone?"727.Guilt/Rejection Dumpers 1, Dumpees 0828.Grief "There's This Terrible Feeling of Loss"969.Anger "Damn the S.O.B.!"11010.Letting Go Disentangling is Hard to Do12811.Self-Worth "Maybe I'm Not So Bad After All!"13612.Transition "I'm Waking Up and Putting Away my Leftovers"14813.Openness "I've Been I liding Behind a Mask"16614.Love "Could Somebody Really Care for Me?"17615.Trust "My Love-Wound is Beginning to Heal"18816.Relatedness "Growing Relationships Help Me Rebuild"20017.Sexuality "I'm Interested, but I'm Scared"21618.Singleness "You Mean It's Okay?"23419.Purpose "I Have Goals for the Future Now"24220.Freedom From Chrysalis to Butterfly250Appendix AKids Are Tougher Than You Think The Rebuilding Blocks Process for Children259Appendix BThe Healing Separation An Alternative to Divorce265Appendix CHealing Separation Agreement Form275Bibliography281Index287
\ A.R.E. Press...warm, simple, and direct... this is a book you will not want to put down.\ \ \ \ \ Behavior TherapistOne of the best books written for the divorcing person... warm, engaging.\ \ \ Esther Oshiver Fisher...a handbook for the divorcing and divorced that is authentic and which they can employ in the rebuilding of their own lives.\ —Journal of Divorce\ \ \ \ \ Florence R. Kaslow...deals with the everyday feelings and problems of the divorcing and divorced... hits just the right balance between seriousness and optimism.\ — Journal of Marital and Family Therapy\ \ \ \ \ Jeanette WrightIf you're putting your life back together after a divorce, you need this book! It could be just what you're looking for to help you get your life back on track. I found it to be very interesting and informative.\ —Borger News-Herald, Borger, Texas\ \ \ \ \ Marilyn Anita DalrympleI found the book comforting, helpful and realistic -- it is going to hurt, and it will not be easy, but you can do it.\ —Affaire de Coeur\ \
