Sex Talk
All the communication tools couples need to take their sex life to a new level.\ There you are, in the throes of passion, when suddenly, your partner shifts, just a tiny bit. Instead of plateauing, you begin to plummet. Communication is so important, but it's so difficult to tell your lover exactly what you want, exactly when you want it. Maybe you don't want to hurt his feelings, or make him think he isn't a good lover. Maybe you just don't know what words to use. Or maybe you don't even...
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All the communication tools couples need to take their sex life to a new level.There you are, in the throes of passion, when suddenly, your partner shifts, just a tiny bit. Instead of plateauing, you begin to plummet. Communication is so important, but it's so difficult to tell your lover exactly what youwant, exactly when you want it. Maybe you don't want to hurt his feelings, or make him think he isn't a good lover. Maybe you just don't know what words to use. Or maybe you don't even know what you want yourself, or you're embarrassed, or shy, or reluctant to ask.But sharing our sexual needs and wants will not only enhance sexual pleasure, it will enhance the love and the overall relationship as well. When we know what to say and feel comfortable enough to say the words needed to stimulate particular sexual activity, we feel safer and more contented.On the other hand, when we hold ourselves back, we may feel frustrated and even angry, feelings that are destructive to any relationship.Written by sex therapist Carole Altman (Electrify Your Sex Life), Sex Talk will give couples all the tools they need to communicate everything,including fantasies and fetishes, preferences and desires, in a way that will make their sex life even more exciting and explosive.
PrefaceviiChapter 1Introduction1Chapter 2Finding the Words-Creating the Atmosphere29Chapter 3What You Want and How To Ask for It43Chapter 4Sexual Needs-Pleasures and Vulnerabilities65Chapter 5Sexual Pleasures-Body Part by Body Part93Chapter 6The Sounds of Sex105Chapter 7Sex Games for Fun, Stimulation, and Pleasure123Chapter 8The Pleasure of Fantasies139Chapter 9Enjoying a Fetish155Chapter 10Spiritual Sex Talk165Chapter 11Sharing Emotions-What Do You Want & What Do You Need?185Chapter 12Demystifying What Sex Should Be211
