Stick up for Yourself!: Every Kid's Guide to Personal Power and Positive Self-Esteem
First published in 1990, this perennial best-seller has helped countless children build self-esteem and assertiveness skills.\ Newly revised and updated, it’s the ultimate resource for any kid who’s ever been picked on at school, bossed around, blamed for things he or she didn’t do, or treated unfairly—and for any kid who sometimes feels frustrated, angry, powerless, or scared. Simple words and real-life examples show how children can stick up for themselves with other kids (including bullies...
Search in google:
First published in 1990, this perennial best-seller has helped countless children build self-esteem and assertiveness skills. Newly revised and updated, it’s the ultimate resource for any kid who’s ever been picked on at school, bossed around, blamed for things he or she didn’t do, or treated unfairly—and for any kid who sometimes feels frustrated, angry, powerless, or scared. Simple words and real-life examples show how children can stick up for themselves with other kids (including bullies and teasers), big sisters and brothers, even grown-ups. Kids learn how to build relationships, become responsible, manage their anger, grow a “feelings vocabulary,” make good choices, solve problems, set goals, and “store” happiness and pride. Questions from real kids are paired with answers about how to handle specific situations calmly, confidently, and effectively. A special note to parents and teachers explores the “self-esteem backlash” and explains what self-esteem really is—and why kids today need it more than ever. A wealth of practical, encouraging, realistic advice, this empowering little book is also recommended for parents, teachers, and counselors.VOYASometimes kids find it hard to talk or even think about their feelings. This book gives you a chance to open up by helping you to create mental pictures of your emotions. The writing is easy for kids to understand but it deals with deep issues. I enjoyed reading it with a friend, and when there were assignments, we did them together. If a teacher used the book in class, the children could write the assignments. I am in sixth grade, and I thought this book would be fine for anyone in middle school. Index. Illus. Further Reading. VOYA CODES: 3Q 3P M (Readable without serious defects; Will appeal with pushing; Middle School, defined as grades 6 to 8). 1999, Free Spirit, Ages 12 to 14, 117p, $11.95 Trade pb. Reviewer: Gaura Mehta, Teen Reviewer
\ From the Publisher“Sensible, inviting, never condescending or preachy. . . . A well-crafted book.”—Voice of Youth Advocates\ “Provides the stepping-stones that lead to positive choices and self-confidence.”—KLIATT\ “A great resource for classroom exercises, as well as for any group that works with teens.”—National Parenting Center\ National Parenting Center’s Seal of Approval\ Parent Council® Selection\ \ \ \ \ \ VOYA\ - Voya Reviews\ Sometimes kids find it hard to talk or even think about their feelings. This book gives you a chance to open up by helping you to create mental pictures of your emotions. The writing is easy for kids to understand but it deals with deep issues. I enjoyed reading it with a friend, and when there were assignments, we did them together. If a teacher used the book in class, the children could write the assignments. I am in sixth grade, and I thought this book would be fine for anyone in middle school. Index. Illus. Further Reading. VOYA CODES: 3Q 3P M (Readable without serious defects; Will appeal with pushing; Middle School, defined as grades 6 to 8). 1999, Free Spirit, Ages 12 to 14, 117p, $11.95 Trade pb. Reviewer: Gaura Mehta, Teen Reviewer\ \ \ School Library JournalA self-help guide to positive thinking, high self-esteem, and responsible personal power. Based on a program originally developed for adults, the book's premise is that all young people can and should be taught the skills necessary to face common issues, such as making choices, liking themselves, and solving problems. Exercises guide readers through learning about their own feelings, dreams, and needs--while stressing that they are responsible for their own behavior and happiness. Written in manual form, Stick Up For Yourself is similar in format to the many adult titles of the same genre. Situational anecdotes used to enhance the discussion are age appropriate and relevant to children. Of particular value are the ``Getting Personal'' sections that encourage writing and keeping a journal, which makes the guide more interactive and meaningful. The highly motivated will use this book independently, but it will be most effective within the classroom, family, or guidance group. --Pamela K. Bomboy, Chesterfield County Pub . Schools, VA\ \
