The Way of the Superior Man
The Ultimate Spiritual Guide for Men\ What is your true purpose in life? What do women really want? What makes a good lover? If you're a man reading this, you've undoubtedly asked yourself these questions—but you may not have had much luck answering them. Until now.\ In The Way of the Superior Man, David Deida explores the most important issues in men's lives—from career and family to women and intimacy to love and spirituality—to offer a practical guidebook for living a masculine life of...
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It's time to evolve beyond the macho jerk ideal, all spine and no heart," teaches David Deida. "It is also time to evolve beyond the sensitive and caring wimp ideal, all heart and no spine." So begins The Way of the Superior Man, a spiritual guide for today's man in search of the secrets to success in career, family, relationships, and intimacy-now available on audio for the first time in this original author adaptation. In his own words, this internationally renowned expert on sexual spirituality offers a complete 4-CD course filled with straightforward advice, empowering skills, body practices, and more to help listeners, male and female alike, realize a life of fulfillment, immediately and without compromise.
Introduction1Part 1A Man's Way1Stop Hoping for a Completion of Anything in Life142Live With an Open Heart Even If It Hurts173Live As If Your Father Were Dead194Know Your Real Edge and Don't Fake It205Always Hold to Your Deepest Realization236Never Change Your Mind Just to Please a Woman257Your Purpose Must Come Before Your Relationship278Lean Just Beyond Your Edge299Do It for Love3110Enjoy Your Friends' Criticism3511If You Don't Know Your Purpose, Discover It, Now3712Be Willing to Change Everything in Your Life3913Don't Use Your Family As an Excuse4414Don't Get Lost in Tasks and Duties4815Stop Hoping for Your Woman to Get Easier51Part 2Dealing with Women16Women Are Not Liars5817Praise Her6118Tolerating Her Leads to Resenting Her6319Don't Analyze Your Woman6620Don't Suggest That a Woman Fix Her Own Emotional Problem6921Stay with Her Intensity-To a Point7422Don't Force the Feminine to Make Decisions77Part 3Working with Polarity and Energy23Your Attraction to the Feminine Is Inevitable8224Choose a Woman Who Is Your Complementary Opposite8625Know What Is Important in Your Woman9226You Will Often Want More Than One Woman9627Young Women Offer You a Special Energy9828Each Woman Has a "Temperature" That Can Heal or Irritate You101Part 4What Women Really Want29Choose a Woman Who Chooses You10830What She Wants Is Not What She Says11031Her Complaint Is Content-Free11432She Doesn't Really Want to Be Number One11833Your Excellent Track Record Is Meaningless to Her12134She Wants to Relax in the Demonstration of Your Direction123Part 5Your Dark Side35You Are Always Searching for Freedom12836Own Your Darkest Desires13237She Wants the "Killer" in You13638She Needs Your Consciousness to Match Her Energy139Part 6Feminine Attractiveness39The Feminine Is Abundant14440Allow Older Women Their Magic14641Turn Your Lust into Gifts14942Never Allow Your Desire to Become Suppressed or Depolarized15243Use Her Attractiveness As a Slingshot Through Appearance157Part 7Body Practices44Ejaculation Should Be Converted or Consciously Chosen16245Breathe Down the Front16846Ejaculate Up the Spine173Part 8Men's and Women's Yoga of Intimacy47Take into Account the Primary Asymmetry18248You Are Responsible for the Growth in Intimacy18749Insist on Practice and Growth19150Restore Your Purpose in Solitude and with Other Men19451Practice Dissolving199David Deida Resources201
\ From the Publisher"I keep giving this book away; I think I've owned 30 different copies already. I tend to pass it out to anybody, man or woman, who has made a commitment to—or even has a passing interest in—the art of loving. David Deida gets it, like no one I've ever read, and he writes about it forcefully, honestly, and downright poetically."\ —Michael Tucker, actor and author\ "The Way of the Superior Man is quite wonderful. Finally, a guide for the noncastrated male. This book will offend and infuriate some, inspire and test others, but challenge virtually everybody. I found it wise, insightful, occasionally brilliant, and always resourceful. To transcend the body-mind means to transcend and include its sexuality, not transcend and evaporate it. Few are the books that discuss strong sexuality within strong spirituality, instead of tepid sexuality diluted by a mediocre spiritual stance. This book steps straightforwardly into the challenge. Love it or loathe it, it is a shout from the heart of one perspective of the eternal masculine."\ —Ken Wilber, author of Sex, Ecology, Spirituality; No Boundary; and Grace and Grit\ "At last! A book that explains the heart and soul of a woman to men. As a woman, I've never felt so understood and validated. This book is a key to helping men and women take their relationships one step further. Finally, a clear and brilliant guide to unraveling the mystery of relationships."\ —Marci Shimoff, co-author of the New York Times #1 bestseller Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul\ "The Way of the Superior Man lays out a challenge before all men to fulfill their true purpose and to be authentically masculine. It will guide you on your journey to a successful and spiritually complete way of life. I invite you to live in the moment, to love openly, and to step up to the plate with this book in your hand."\ —Tony Robbins, author of Awaken the Giant Within and Unlimited Power\ "David's work speaks to the core of our work as men. He offers a bold view of men, and challenges us to stand up and lay claim to the beauty and power of the masculine. He does not advocate superiority as in 'superiority to women.' He speaks of superiority as the Greeks might. The challenge is strictly internal. The invitation is to rise above our mediocrity, to let go of making excuses for our own laziness, to stop apologizing for who we are, and to stop blaming others or our childhood for how we've become. He asks that we step into the fullness of our being—intense, focused, powerful, clear. And directly connected to our hearts."\ —Dennis Mead-Shikaly, Executive Director: The ManKind Project / New Warrior Network\ \ \
