Love the inside, embrace the outside.\ First published in 1999, this thoroughly revised and updated edition now presents the issues and concerns relating to self-esteem in the LGBT world to a new generation of men and women. This compassionate guide delves in to the unique problems of self-esteem in the gay community, and how understanding your own self-worth can allow you to function better in this complex world. With advice for every demographic, this is the most comprehensive book for...
An revised and updated version of the definitive book on self-esteem for the LGBT community.
Acknowledgments viiForward Joe Kort, MA, MSW, ACSW ixIntroduction 1Origins: Influences on Your Self-EsteemWhat Is Self-Esteem and Can You Really Change It? 13Hand-Me-Down Messages: What You Learned from Your Family of Origin 31Inescapable Messages: The Media, Culture, and Politics 53Messages of Faith: Religious Authorities 72Schools, Peers, and Other Influences 89Choices: How Self-Esteem Impacts Your Daily LifeYour Career and Going for It 105Love and Self-Esteem 116Lifestyle 128Healing: Doing the WorkFeeling the Feelings 145Modifying Self-Talk 153Self-Nurturing and Forgiveness 173Spirituality 193Expressions: New Topics and CurrentsTransgender Self-Esteem 207Aging and Self-Esteem 224Queer Parenting and Self-Esteem 245Life on the Down Low 262Growth and Change 281References and Resources 285