The Whole Lesbian Sex Book: A Passionate Guide for All of Us
Finally, a truly comprehensive sex guide for lesbians and bisexual women! The Whole Lesbian Sex Book offers information and support for all women who love women — partnered and single, young and old, transgendered and traditionally gendered, sexually experienced and new to sexual exploration.
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The Whole Lesbian Sex Book was the first-ever sex guide to offer information and encouragement for all women who desire women — lesbian, bisexual, butch, femme, androgynous, and transgender. First published in 1999, it has been lauded for its thoroughness, enthusiastic tone, and creative, nonjudgmental approach to lesbian sex in all its rich variety. Now, five years later, sex educator Felice Newman has completely updated this classic guide. There is new information throughout, up-to-date research, fresh quotes from women who share their personal experiences, a greatly expanded resource guide, new illustrations, and an entire new chapter on sex and partnership. BUST Magazine The Whole Lesbian Sex Book is infectious and empowering and extremely well-researched.
IllustrationsxPreface to the Second EditionxiIntroductionxvChapter 1Welcome1Chapter 2Desire and Fantasy3What's Your Fetish?5Run Wild7Make Your Dreams Come True8Nurture Your Libido10Sex + Intimacy14Fantasy14Lesbian Porn16Chapter 3Anatomy and Sexual Response19Anatomy19Sexual Response27Sexual Response over a Lifetime30Chapter 4Orgasm45This Is Taking Too Long46If You Can't Have an Orgasm47Does Viagra Work for Women?48How Do You Come?49Getting Her Off51Multiple Orgasms52Tantra and Extended Orgasms53Ejaculation55Chapter 5The Road to Heaven Leads to You59A Love/Hate Relationship60Take a Good Look62Appreciate Yourself63Take It In63Join the Crowd63Get Into Your Body65Somatic Healing66You Are What You Eat68Get a Pelvic Exam68Safer Sex, Please69Be Present72Life Changes73Chapter 6Masturbation75What Will Masturbation Do for You?75The Masturbation Workshop Adventure78Teach Yourself Some New Tricks81How-To's of Masturbation82Solo Toys83Erotica and Fantasy84How-To's of Orgasm84Masturbating with a Partner86Chapter 7Communication and Finding Sex Partners89Geography, Not Destiny90Talk Talk Talk91Tongue-Tied?94Who Are You Looking For?95Making Your Move97"No, Thank You"98Personal Ads in Newspapers and Magazines99Sex on the Internet100Play Safe102Sex Parties102Sex Talk Guidelines103Where to Learn More104Chapter 8Sex and Partnership107Erotic Intimacy108What Kind of Sex Life Do You Want, Anyway?109What Kind of Partnership Do You Want?117You Make It Happen121What's Holding You Back?130Low Libido High Libido One Libido No Libido132What? No Sex?137Find Your Passion139Sexual Community140Keep It Happening143Chapter 9Breast Play147Sensitivity148Teach Your Partner149How-To's of Breast Play150Nipple Piercings151Toys for Breast Play152Chapter 10Clitoral Play155The Art of the Hand156Take a Tour156What If Your Hand Gets Tired?158Frottage160How-To's of Clitoral Stimulation160Genital Piercings161Genital Shaving162How-To's of Genital Shaving163Toys for Clitoral Play164Clitoral Play-Safely166Where to Learn More166Chapter 11Oral Sex167Cunnilingus169Going Down on Your Girl171How-To's of Cunnilingus172Analingus173How-To's of Analingus175Positions for Oral Sex176What a Pain in the Neck!176(Detachable) Cocksucking177How to Suck (Detachable) Cock180Oral Sex-Safely180So What's a Girl to Do?182Chapter 12Vaginal Penetration185Take a Tour185Finger-Fucking187Vaginal Fisting189Strap-On Dildos193How-To's of Vaginal Penetration197Positions for Vaginal Penetration198Toys for Vaginal Play200Vaginal Penetration-Safely201Where to Learn More202Chapter 13Anal Penetration205Take a Tour205Basic Preparations208Finger-Fucking211Anal Fisting213Strap-On Dildos215How-To's of Anal Penetration219Positions for Anal Penetration219Toys for Anal Penetration221Anal Penetration-Safely222Where to Learn More223Chapter 14Gender (Not Destiny)225What Is Gender?226Intersexuality227Transgender and Transsexual228Partners of Transgendered Women and Men231Sexual Orientation234Playing with the Boys235Butch/Femme236Chapter 15Play Nice! (...or Else)241Ouch!!! (Yum...)242Negotiation244Creating the S/M Scene: Ritual and Theater247Pushing the Emotional Edges248Teach Yourself Some New Tricks251How Do You Know What You Want?262Toys for BDSM Play264That Sounds Dangerous!265BDSM Play-Safely266Where to Learn More266Chapter 16Play Parties and Public Sex269Commercial Sex269Play Parties271How to Have Fun at a Sex Party273Where to Find Play Parties274Play Party Etiquette275How to Throw a Safer-Sex Party275Chapter 17Sex Toys and Accoutrements279How to Choose Sex Toys284Got Your Lube?296Got Your Safer-Sex Supplies?298Does Latex Make You Itch?298How's Your Budget?299How to Care for Your Toys300Chapter 18Safer Sex and Gynecological Health303Talking to Your Doctor About Sex304Gynecological Care305STDs and Gynecological Concerns306What If Your Partner Won't Use Barriers?316What If You Have an STD?318Chapter 19Bibliography321Chapter 20Resources335Notes359Index367About the Author377
\ BUST MagazineThe Whole Lesbian Sex Book is infectious and empowering and extremely well-researched.\ \ \ \ \ Library JournalIn this second edition of her lesbian sex manual (the first was released in 2000), Newman, founding publisher of Cleis Press, covers oral, manual, anal, and insertive-vaginal techniques with loving care. She includes a whole chapter on breast play, addresses safety in each section as well as in a separate chapter, and even discusses transgender and bisexuality issues, masturbation, S/M, sex parties, and sex toys while giving equal attention to monogamous and polyamorous sex styles. The text expands the orgasm section to a full chapter, includes an additional chapter on sex and partnership, and updates other sections, especially those on health (including how to talk to your physician), sexual response, sex toys, and communicating about sex. The excellent bibliography and resources sections have also been updated; detailed source notes and an index complete the package. This comprehensive and superbly competent manual sets a standard for which all popular sex writers should aim. Not just for lesbians-heterosexual women could learn a great deal about themselves, as could the men who aspire to please them-this is highly recommended for all collections.-Martha Cornog, Philadelphia Copyright 2005 Reed Business Information.\ \
